By: Oke Mariam

A thousand and one times I have settled for the fact that “although the body size varies, it is apparently not linked to how a lady should be treated “.

Her stature or skin complexion does not define her. Although a lady should be two things: classy and fabulous, that way, she gets with ease in life what she desires. Being classy is a culmination of being yourself, being positive, and doing good in all the places you can by all means. Clothes, hair, music, film…. none of these things makes you classy. Elegance is the only beauty that never fades. The real elegance is in the mind – greatly accompanied with excellence of the heart. If you have got that, the rest comes from it.

A lady likes to be complimented on her looks, her eyes, her figure. But the personality comments are much appreciated where she’s been told of her uniqueness and endearing spirit. A woman is the full circle – within her is the power to create, nurture and transform. The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the care that she lovingly gives.

You create beauty with your attitude, you make an impression with your behaviour, you make statements with your elegance & scream out with your actions. Beauty alone is not impressive. Put an attitude to be attractive and add brain to be sophisticated. Note that humility and simplicity are the ultimate forms of sophistication.

A woman with a voice is by definition a strong woman. But the search to find that voice can be remarkably difficult. But, YOU can do it!” There are so many pressures that are put upon young women.

Never underestimate the power of a woman as we get down to digging out that strong, bold and beautiful woman. The size is never a determinant!

The author, Mariam Oke is a communicator, Virgo, fun to be with, endearing, lover of God, optimist and a goal getter. A super chef, independent woman, big, bold and beautiful woman, she has set goals of being a messiah to her world and generation.


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