Finding out that your partner has been cheating on you can hit you like a ton of bricks. You didn’t think it could happen to you, but unfortunately, your partner has been unfaithful! Your marriage may be thrown into a state of crisis that may destroy it.
It is natural to want to know why your partner cheated, but there is rarely a simple answer to why someone becomes unfaithful. It could be a symptom of other problems in your marriage, it could relate to something in your partner’s past, or it could be totally unrelated to you or to your marriage. No matter the cause, you’ll have a lot of complicated feelings to sort through, and a lot to think about as you decide how to move forward.
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So, we (Top Media Nigeria) ask our readers how they’ll handle cheating in their relationship or marriage. As usual, we have some interesting comments:
For me, I won’t do anything to her, but it will be over between the two of us. There will be no noise; no quarrel. It’s just over! – Yusuf
Why would my partner cheat on me? I wouldn’t know why he is cheating on me but he knows why.
If I know my partner is cheating, I won’t let him know that I am aware. I don’t even have problem with him, I only have with the lady. And the problem is not by quarrelling with her, I will only ask her questions: What does my husband like in you? And if she tells me, I make amends, I’m 100% sure my partner will change. – Bola
If I get to know that he’s cheating on me, I’ll just request for genuine reason(s) why he’s doing that and I’ll forgive him and move on.
If he does it again and again, then I think we’ll go our separate ways. ‘AIDS is real o’.
But if he cheats on me after marriage then I need to pray fervently so that God will change his ways and save my home from crumbling. – Raheemah
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If I find out that my partner is cheating on me. First is to call her attention, that what she is doing is very wrong, and could cost our relationship to fall apart.
Secondly, I will advise her to desist from such act. If she obeys, our relationship will continue and if she did not hearken to my advice, I will walk away honourably.
Thirdly, before I finally walk away, I’ll report her to someone she respect so much. For example, her parents, her friend whom she listen to very well – that’s if she has one whom I know quite well.
It is better for me to be single than have a partner who cheats on me because it is more dangerous for me as a man. – Nelson
I will try to find out what, why and how it comes to that
I will try to work on them. But if he continues cheating, I will just kill him with silence and turn my eyes away. – Morenikeji
I’ll just let go of him
But if he likes me more than the other person, I’ll forgive him and continue with the relationship. – Sofiyah
I’ll cook his favourite dish. – Habeebat
Confront him to know why. If it is something we can both resolve, we will do that but if it is not, I walk away. – Bimpe
I’ll cut her off, simple. – Abbas
Find out why she is doing it – maybe she might be lacking something from me. If otherwise, I will have to let her go. – Abdul Malik
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The say love defies common sense. I’ll forgive her if I can cope with my new findings provided she make amends.
Unless it’s a repeated process, I’ll have to let her go. – Rabiu
I’ll divorce him because I won’t respect him again. – Ashefon
I just hope I am not the cause of her misdeed. If I am, then I rather concentrate on my weakness than making an issue which I might be blamed for in the end.
However, if I have been up to the task as a partner, then why should I even fight her? It’s enough humiliation in the first place and cheating reflects who she is and not who I am. – Nurain
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